My life my attitude and My ways...

life is very Strange , try to accept and learn how you can combat with all the condition of your life. even the theory of evolution points out,"survival of fittest".

if you want to live a life, be brave and adjust according to the condition where you are require to adjust. if you can't mean you are also the one standing among the loser  So its up to you and me whether we want to be among a loser or among the winner.
but it is also true that,"rather to tell is very easy but to do is very difficult, and if you already know you are gonna loose why to give a f*** try! "
so what i would like to share i why we should try:
Basically if we try its 90% assured we will get to learn some thing and acquire some experience, which may be helpful to you in one way or the other.
so, we must try to be very harsh regarding giving a try in our life.
if i say that 

broken heart..

Has this situation ever intrigued in your life? you got broken out of the relationship, and you felt as if your heart was broken and your soul sobbed in tears. whether the reason be any because of which, you got broken in a relationship, it's for sure you might have felt as if the whole world crashing and coming down and falling over you!! 
you might be thinking as if you are only the one who is having such a tremendous pain. but let me interpret you, you are not only the one who has came across such situation, neither you will be!
let me tell you even after getting broken with your first girlfriend or boy friend, did you stop on going in a relations with the other person. i guess 80% of people even after break up with in some fraction of time indulge in going on a relations.

you were my everything!

sometime it incur  in our life and at some point of life,
 once or more than once some meant to be everything for us.
 we feel as if we don't need anyone except that person 
in the world. we just want to live rest of our life with that person.
 we want to share our sorrow, joys and every moment and 
second of our life with that particular person.but if we want
 to live in reality; i don't say it is not possible, but its
 in very minor proportion.because the quotes below is 100% true,

you were my everything

  "we want the world to go on the way ewe like, but world will go according to it

 pre-plan and so will be the persons."

even with me this happened  once an girl meant to be every thing for me, i loved her so much and so does she, but may be we were meant to be together for a time being and share each other memories after we get apart. the relationship was a distance relationship, but we never had a problem with the distance 

because the thing that mattered us most was our feeling for each other, our caring for each other. i never felt that she was that much far away from me and i do know and had a feeling that even she did have same feeling. we cared, loved,  affection-ed 
about each other as if we were meant for each other, but its absolutely true 
fact the "beauty is shot lived" only the problem we have was she fear to
 lose me and even i did but i never admitted it, 
she always behave
 possessiveness over me. because of some mere misunderstanding
 and her possessiveness, we broke up. but still we two loved each 
other and communicate very often.

still when i see her pics or remember her name my heart stills
 throbs and tears flow out in pain.

How to stop being jealous?

where their comes any good things, the bad things also comes along with it. And it is true in all the sphere of our life. so, if i talk about love, then the weak point of love that is jealousy also do exists along with love.

so let me ask you all some question; if it ever happened to you.

Don't be jealous

you don't like your girlfriend or boy friend communicating with other guys or girls around. you feel very bad when that person is spending time with other in spite of you, then definitely their is jealousy in the relation. And up-to certain limit it correct and one should be a bit jealous and possessive  but every thing has got a limitation and if one crosses it , someone for sure will be hurt.

even i get jealous when my girlfriend talks with someone else and my heart aches so much. so it normal phenomenon whether it be guys or girls.

so according to my own experience, that i am sharing today, hope this would be helpful. and even if one person implement its and can get the jealousy out of their relation, i would rather be happy that i wrote this blog.
because life itself is like this only.
And most amazing thing is we get jealous over such person  who are very important for our life. this happens just because of fear of  losing someone close to our heart. to be honest i to was very much very possessive over my loved. so to come out of the situation i tried to implement the quotes, 
"one who is mine will always be mine irrespective of any consequences"
and it worked absolutely fine with me. and hope this will work with some of you.
Best of luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Is possessiveness in relationship good?

possessiveness one of the Omni-present factor in any of the

 relationships. whether it be friend, family, wife or a

 girlfriend/boyfriend, possessiveness is seen everywhere

 and in every sphere of our life. possessiveness is not that bad,

 but the simple possessiveness may led to over-possessiveness 

which may bring a catastrophic situation in any of the relationship.

so the quotes is absolutely true, "sometime we get possessive with something or someone we don't  even own it's side effect of loving too much"

in our life we, all of us do have a hunger for love, affection and care. when we get that thing we start thinking in our own mind and start building a dream bridges.

it ultimately led to hurting our-self  because what we may be feeling good may not be the same for the other person around.

so one can say this quote is absolutely correct, 

"only with love, its not possible to live, one may also need many other thing for their living"

i may not the first person to be having this feeling neither are you? 

so don't worry about this feeling. but try to exercise the controlling of it 

and letting it turn into over-possessiveness.

so i must conclude that everything with in limits are good and so goes in the case of possessiveness. 

Is it a mere attraction or love!

Attraction merely remains for the time being and people get over it with a passage of time. As soon as one find someone and are in love with someone, its not a love. But the love being entirely different thing, it doesn't get changes with changes in time.



Attraction or love!!

 so you can easily understand: what is love and what is attraction?
but the most difficult thing is differentiate between these two? because love starts with an attraction only!
so its very important and one must consider it as an important steps, before going on a relationship. so below i will provide you with some guides; how you can differentiate between love and attraction?
·         in attraction You’re totally focused on a person’s looks and body rather than on their personality.
·         You’re interested in having sex, in attraction where as in love You want to spend quality time together rather than sex.
·         You’d rather keep the relationship on a fantasy level, without discussing real feelings but in love You get lost in conversations and communicate the way you feel.
·         You want to leave soon after sex rather than caring and showing affection the next morning where as in case of love You want to honestly listen to each other’s feelings, make each other happy.
·         You are lovers, but not friends, where as in case of love He or she motivates you to be a better person.You want to get to meet his or her family and friends and know them as well.
so it is very important to make a differentiation between the love and attraction, because one may feel incompatible with each other after going on through a few months of relationship.

i'm Nothing without you.......

My life was nothing without you.

Person who understood me were few

Still I think you may come back one day

And forgive me/I love you I will heard you say

You were the one and always will be one I loved

Thinking about you and our memories I sobbed

 



It was neither or nor mine fault

But our fates did us a great assault

Thinking of it, I always drunk a wine

Hoping one day everything will be fine

Although I was and have been alone

But you were always in my heard and mind

My life was nothing with out you

You also loved me truly I know