2/24/2013

love is everything

someone said, "when your in love everything around
 seems to be beautiful"
But, i say "when you are in love 
nothing will seem to be more
 beautiful then the one who you love"
it's true and if you have felt in love with someone, 
for sure you might had this feeling.
i also had this once when i found her and went in a
Love is Everything
 relations with 
her. she was like the whole world for 
me nothing meant important 
to me than any one or anything.
but we grew apart of some reason but still she 
meant to be everything, even though a lot of 
things got changed, but still i do have special 
feeling for her. and she will always remain in my life and will 
be a part of my life. even i will grow old, i will have 
the same feeling for her. so my reader love for sure means 
everything, and do not forget to leave your valuable comment on it
and feel free to share your feeling's too. 

2/19/2013

I think you still love me


I think she still love's me, 
but i cannot escape from the fact 
that I couldn't hold on your love. 
I knew that this was gonna happen and its not that
 i didn't try, i tried as much as i can,
 So I’m not blaming you for falling 
You Still Love Me
in love with someone else. 
I’m not angry, either.I should be, but I’m not.
 I just feel pain. A lot of pain and ache in my heart. 
I thought I could imagine how much this
 would hurt, but I was wrong.
And it is really hard to see my lover is some
 one arms, if only the thinking of such 
thing make me cry in pain and it is full of ache. i
 cannot imagine of that at all. so dear reader
 do comment
what to do when someone you love leaves
 you and find some one.
have you ever grown through this, if yes
 do share your feeling with us.
But still i feel she loves me

To Miss someone until they come back


To Miss someone until they come back, 
or until you come back, 
until their absence in your life 
becomes something miserable. 
Miss them until you don’t have to anymore, 
until you’re reunited in your favorite both in
 your favorite restaurant ordering your favorite meal,
 miss them until it feels like you never left. 
Or miss them until you can’t anymore, until 
the things you miss are identified and cataloged
 as things and not a person, until you figure 
out that easy company and long talks and 
unblinking, all-knowing eye contact will find 
you again the way they found you the first time. 
Miss someone until you don’t.” 

reason why people cheat in relationship

When person fall in love for first time with someone, 
their is certain chemicals that are released in body that 
provide one with the feeling of ecstasy, pleasure,
 joy, excitement attraction. But with time these chemicals 
disappear and the feelings of love are felt with intimacy 
and closeness instead. When a person meets another woman 
other than his girlfriend, he may finds her more attractive. 
Once again these chemicals are released once whether he
 is a loyal or not. This situation is a critical one. At this 
point of time disloyal person will go for the new relation 
while honest people avoid giving into such feelings of
 attraction. People who don't understand this concept 
might cheat When this happens to a cheater he never 
realizes that the attraction he feels towards that person
 results from the hormones that are released in his body
 but instead he thinks that he loves that new person more
 than his spouse. Cheaters might say something like: 
 I experience new feelings when i see her that
 i don't experience with my wife anymore 
 I am more motivated to see him than to
 see my husband . I never seem to get bored of her.

2/12/2013

"i love you" words are not enough!

Cute and lovely story of a couple. 
Girl: you really love me na? 
 Boy: yeh!! Off course I do. ....
 Girl: I want hear you say that. "I love you" Boy: i think i don’t have too.
 Girl: Why nott and why you can't say that? 
Boy: Because... 
 Girl: I just want to hear you say it in words.
 I don't know anything. Boy: I realy can’t...
 The girl started cryin softly and said: Then i guess you don't love me at all... 
 Both of them continued to walk in silence. They reached the girls home.
 Girl: Why why you can't? Boy: Do you really wanna know reason?
 Girl: hesitantly Yes. Boy: hugged her gently,
 kissed on her lips and said in her ear, "Because these three words
 are not enough to show you my love, my feelings for you.
 Isn't what boy said correct?

Love is great

A story to tell how great is love? A person in order to save someone life from accident died.
 He turned into ghost. A young boy at night was going toward his house
 on the way that person died. He stopped his bike and was bit afraid.
 He saw someone lamenting. So he wanted to talk with him, and asked 
who you are? That person replied : i am ghost. Boy : how did you die?
 Ghost : i was hit by a car in order to save someone's life Boy : 
why you saved that person? Ghost : because i don't want her(the person i loved ) 
to get hurt. Boy : i think you really love her because you've sacrificed your 
own life just for her... may be she's sad and even unhappy now because ur death... 
Ghost : NO, SHE IS VERY HAPPY..BECAUSE THE person
 I SAVED IS THE MAN WHOM SHE LOVES. Its love.

2/11/2013

to be jealous is part of LOVE

A short story pleading people not to get jealous over their loved one's. A couple having a conversation in a park of their college. Boy : do you realy love me han! Girl : hmm yes i do Boy: ok thank you and kissed her on her lips. Girl: i love you, please never ever leave me boy : i love you too, and can't leave without you. Girl : but you know i realy get jealous when the other girl stares at you or talk to you! Boy : hey Honey please don't get jealous because you have one thing of mine that they dont have and will never have! Girl : whats that please tell my love?? Boy : boy holding her hand and putting his chest "MINE HEART" its my small token for all those couple who are jealous. Please don't get jealous friend's. It bring nothing except relationship problem

2/10/2013

How much she loved me?

One of my pasts girlfriend said to me "i do care for your happiness, but i dont care even if im hurts. i can suffered for you, you have made a rightchoice for yourself, i am nothing, your not brocken heart instead your most happiest person now, yuo have got a freedom and no one will destroy ur relation, neither me from my heart i want you to be happy, how it hurts i can't even explain, but if it comes to your happiness i can do everything or anything for you, maybe im not the right women for you, just to say do take care of yourself and your girlfriend, love her and take care of her. She is the one right for you, enjoy your life with her, wish you all the best, bye raj fore ever." i just want to say you, "Although i don't have any communication with you, i just want to wish you for all the happiness, in your life. May be i was not that much good for you so i just want you all happiness by grace of lord. You find someone realy good in relationship." all the best for you in your life.

2/07/2013

How attitude and misunderstanding causes relationship problems?

I still remember that day, when i was hurted to much! What was mine fault? I didn't except much in my life except her. Why she didnt understand me? Or may be it was our fate to do the assaults. We always have option in our life, but things don't go in the exact way we want it to go. That day was 7th february being a rose day and its been a month i quit a job. So i don't have much choice and was going through financial strain. My pocket was empty and i didnt even have a penny for a cigar. When i emptied my wallet i found 100 bucks. That day being a special day i thought of getting a flower for my girl friend. And got a good collection of flower for her. But after i bought flower i didn't even have a fair to go to my girl friend house. I called her number, she was bit busy with her work. I told i was outside her house. But, she being very busy didnt came. I cried and told her ok than i am going back home. I had walked 10 km on my foot to give her small token of my love. I was getting back, suddenly my phone ranged, it was her! In a angry voice she said whats up? The reason being she could complete her work for some reason. I replied, "i had got something for you, but i realised that it wasnt meant to be for you" and it was true also on my way back, i gave it to small kid, a stray on a traffic. May be i was hurt very much because of her behaviour and my condition. She call me again and start to frustrate, i was simply listening her, as if without any feeling. She asked me to meet up, but i replied, "sorry i will meet you when i will grow that much, till i can be responsible". From that day i stopped talking with her. It happens normaly that we give up on our loved one because of our attitude and misunderstanding. So, i will advice to try in giving off ones attitude, for good relationship.

2/03/2013

3 basics for healthy relationship II

In my last post "3 basics for healthy relationship I" i wrote about the first factor being the time. So what i am gonna do is to write about second basics of relationship, which is "understanding" one can also refer it as mutual understanding. Understanding is also a crucial and important factor for any kind of relationship. Its said correct, misunderstanding can bring a catastrophe to relationship. Its enough now! So let us proceed how to built, understanding. 
relationship advice
Again here comes the first basic time. 

One should spent more and more time with their loved one. And the other most important thing is show them "who you are?" and stop pretending. It will really help to built good understanding. It will actually show person your nature.
 Its better to quit a relationship in the beginning  if their is a lot of misunderstanding. 

Don't force some one for a relation. It will bring nothing except, hurting yourself. Mine word may be easy to say, rather than in actual practice  But, you have to do that for betterment of your relation. Some time eyes speaks, emotion talks, the moment you understand all this, it mean you have a good understanding with your loved one. So you can try to implement it in your life. The last basic i would write in my next post. 
Till then enjoy reading!!!!.