Is possessiveness in relationship good?

possessiveness one of the Omni-present factor in any of the

 relationships. whether it be friend, family, wife or a

 girlfriend/boyfriend, possessiveness is seen everywhere

 and in every sphere of our life. possessiveness is not that bad,

 but the simple possessiveness may led to over-possessiveness 

which may bring a catastrophic situation in any of the relationship.

so the quotes is absolutely true, "sometime we get possessive with something or someone we don't  even own it's side effect of loving too much"

in our life we, all of us do have a hunger for love, affection and care. when we get that thing we start thinking in our own mind and start building a dream bridges.

it ultimately led to hurting our-self  because what we may be feeling good may not be the same for the other person around.

so one can say this quote is absolutely correct, 

"only with love, its not possible to live, one may also need many other thing for their living"

i may not the first person to be having this feeling neither are you? 

so don't worry about this feeling. but try to exercise the controlling of it 

and letting it turn into over-possessiveness.

so i must conclude that everything with in limits are good and so goes in the case of possessiveness.