12/19/2012

Is it a mere attraction or love!


Attraction merely remains for the time being and people get over it with a passage of time. As soon as one find someone and are in love with someone, its not a love. But the love being entirely different thing, it doesn't get changes with changes in time.




attraction or love
Attraction or love!!
 so you can easily understand: what is love and what is attraction?
but the most difficult thing is differentiate between these two? because love starts with an attraction only!
so its very important and one must consider it as an important steps, before going on a relationship. so below i will provide you with some guides; how you can differentiate between love and attraction?
·         in attraction You’re totally focused on a person’s looks and body rather than on their personality.
·         You’re interested in having sex, in attraction where as in love You want to spend quality time together rather than sex.
·         You’d rather keep the relationship on a fantasy level, without discussing real feelings but in love You get lost in conversations and communicate the way you feel.
·         You want to leave soon after sex rather than caring and showing affection the next morning where as in case of love You want to honestly listen to each other’s feelings, make each other happy.
·         You are lovers, but not friends, where as in case of love He or she motivates you to be a better person.You want to get to meet his or her family and friends and know them as well.
so it is very important to make a differentiation between the love and attraction, because one may feel incompatible with each other after going on through a few months of relationship.

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