love is everything

someone said, "when your in love everything around

 seems to be beautiful"

But, i say "when you are in love 

nothing will seem to be more

 beautiful then the one who you love"

it's true and if you have felt in love with someone, 

for sure you might had this feeling.

i also had this once when i found her and went in a

Love is Everything

 relations with 

her. she was like the whole world for 

me nothing meant important 

to me than any one or anything.

but we grew apart of some reason but still she 

meant to be everything, even though a lot of 

things got changed, but still i do have special 

feeling for her. and she will always remain in my life and will 

be a part of my life. even i will grow old, i will have 

the same feeling for her. so my reader love for sure means 

everything, and do not forget to leave your valuable comment on it

and feel free to share your feeling's too. 

I think you still love me

I think she still love's me, 

but i cannot escape from the fact 

that I couldn't hold on your love. 

I knew that this was gonna happen and its not that

 i didn't try, i tried as much as i can,

 So I’m not blaming you for falling 

You Still Love Me

in love with someone else. 

I’m not angry, either.I should be, but I’m not.

 I just feel pain. A lot of pain and ache in my heart. 

I thought I could imagine how much this

 would hurt, but I was wrong.

And it is really hard to see my lover is some

 one arms, if only the thinking of such 

thing make me cry in pain and it is full of ache. i

 cannot imagine of that at all. so dear reader

 do comment

what to do when someone you love leaves

 you and find some one.

have you ever grown through this, if yes

 do share your feeling with us.

But still i feel she loves me

To Miss someone until they come back

To Miss someone until they come back, 

or until you come back, 

until their absence in your life 

becomes something miserable. 

Miss them until you don’t have to anymore, 

until you’re reunited in your favorite both in

 your favorite restaurant ordering your favorite meal,

 miss them until it feels like you never left. 

Or miss them until you can’t anymore, until 

the things you miss are identified and cataloged

 as things and not a person, until you figure 

out that easy company and long talks and 

unblinking, all-knowing eye contact will find 

you again the way they found you the first time. 

Miss someone until you don’t.” 

reason why people cheat in relationship

When person fall in love for first time with someone, 

their is certain chemicals that are released in body that 

provide one with the feeling of ecstasy, pleasure,

 joy, excitement attraction. But with time these chemicals 

disappear and the feelings of love are felt with intimacy 

and closeness instead. When a person meets another woman 

other than his girlfriend, he may finds her more attractive. 

Once again these chemicals are released once whether he

 is a loyal or not. This situation is a critical one. At this 

point of time disloyal person will go for the new relation 

while honest people avoid giving into such feelings of

 attraction. People who don't understand this concept 

might cheat When this happens to a cheater he never 

realizes that the attraction he feels towards that person

 results from the hormones that are released in his body

 but instead he thinks that he loves that new person more

 than his spouse. Cheaters might say something like: 

 I experience new feelings when i see her that

 i don't experience with my wife anymore 

 I am more motivated to see him than to

 see my husband . I never seem to get bored of her.

"i love you" words are not enough!

Cute and lovely story of a couple. 

Girl: you really love me na? 

 Boy: yeh!! Off course I do. ....

 Girl: I want hear you say that. "I love you" Boy: i think i don’t have too.

 Girl: Why nott and why you can't say that? 

Boy: Because... 

 Girl: I just want to hear you say it in words.

 I don't know anything. Boy: I realy can’t...

 The girl started cryin softly and said: Then i guess you don't love me at all... 

 Both of them continued to walk in silence. They reached the girls home.

 Girl: Why why you can't? Boy: Do you really wanna know reason?

 Girl: hesitantly Yes. Boy: hugged her gently,

 kissed on her lips and said in her ear, "Because these three words

 are not enough to show you my love, my feelings for you.

 Isn't what boy said correct?

Love is great

A story to tell how great is love? A person in order to save someone life from accident died.

 He turned into ghost. A young boy at night was going toward his house

 on the way that person died. He stopped his bike and was bit afraid.

 He saw someone lamenting. So he wanted to talk with him, and asked 

who you are? That person replied : i am ghost. Boy : how did you die?

 Ghost : i was hit by a car in order to save someone's life Boy : 

why you saved that person? Ghost : because i don't want her(the person i loved ) 

to get hurt. Boy : i think you really love her because you've sacrificed your 

own life just for her... may be she's sad and even unhappy now because ur death... 

Ghost : NO, SHE IS VERY HAPPY..BECAUSE THE person

 I SAVED IS THE MAN WHOM SHE LOVES. Its love.

to be jealous is part of LOVE

A short story pleading people not to get jealous over their loved one's. A couple having a conversation in a park of their college. Boy : do you realy love me han! Girl : hmm yes i do Boy: ok thank you and kissed her on her lips. Girl: i love you, please never ever leave me boy : i love you too, and can't leave without you. Girl : but you know i realy get jealous when the other girl stares at you or talk to you! Boy : hey Honey please don't get jealous because you have one thing of mine that they dont have and will never have! Girl : whats that please tell my love?? Boy : boy holding her hand and putting his chest "MINE HEART" its my small token for all those couple who are jealous. Please don't get jealous friend's. It bring nothing except relationship problem

How much she loved me?

One of my pasts girlfriend said to me "i do care for your happiness, but i dont care even if im hurts. i can suffered for you, you have made a rightchoice for yourself, i am nothing, your not brocken heart instead your most happiest person now, yuo have got a freedom and no one will destroy ur relation, neither me from my heart i want you to be happy, how it hurts i can't even explain, but if it comes to your happiness i can do everything or anything for you, maybe im not the right women for you, just to say do take care of yourself and your girlfriend, love her and take care of her. She is the one right for you, enjoy your life with her, wish you all the best, bye raj fore ever." i just want to say you, "Although i don't have any communication with you, i just want to wish you for all the happiness, in your life. May be i was not that much good for you so i just want you all happiness by grace of lord. You find someone realy good in relationship." all the best for you in your life.

How attitude and misunderstanding causes relationship problems?

I still remember that day, when i was hurted to much! What was mine fault? I didn't except much in my life except her. Why she didnt understand me? Or may be it was our fate to do the assaults. We always have option in our life, but things don't go in the exact way we want it to go. That day was 7th february being a rose day and its been a month i quit a job. So i don't have much choice and was going through financial strain. My pocket was empty and i didnt even have a penny for a cigar. When i emptied my wallet i found 100 bucks. That day being a special day i thought of getting a flower for my girl friend. And got a good collection of flower for her. But after i bought flower i didn't even have a fair to go to my girl friend house. I called her number, she was bit busy with her work. I told i was outside her house. But, she being very busy didnt came. I cried and told her ok than i am going back home. I had walked 10 km on my foot to give her small token of my love. I was getting back, suddenly my phone ranged, it was her! In a angry voice she said whats up? The reason being she could complete her work for some reason. I replied, "i had got something for you, but i realised that it wasnt meant to be for you" and it was true also on my way back, i gave it to small kid, a stray on a traffic. May be i was hurt very much because of her behaviour and my condition. She call me again and start to frustrate, i was simply listening her, as if without any feeling. She asked me to meet up, but i replied, "sorry i will meet you when i will grow that much, till i can be responsible". From that day i stopped talking with her. It happens normaly that we give up on our loved one because of our attitude and misunderstanding. So, i will advice to try in giving off ones attitude, for good relationship.

3 basics for healthy relationship II

In my last post "3 basics for healthy relationship I" i wrote about the first factor being the time. So what i am gonna do is to write about second basics of relationship, which is "understanding" one can also refer it as mutual understanding. Understanding is also a crucial and important factor for any kind of relationship. Its said correct, misunderstanding can bring a catastrophe to relationship. Its enough now! So let us proceed how to built, understanding. 

relationship advice

Again here comes the first basic time. 

One should spent more and more time with their loved one. And the other most important thing is show them "who you are?" and stop pretending. It will really help to built good understanding. It will actually show person your nature.
 Its better to quit a relationship in the beginning  if their is a lot of misunderstanding. 

Don't force some one for a relation. It will bring nothing except, hurting yourself. Mine word may be easy to say, rather than in actual practice  But, you have to do that for betterment of your relation. Some time eyes speaks, emotion talks, the moment you understand all this, it mean you have a good understanding with your loved one. So you can try to implement it in your life. The last basic i would write in my next post. 
Till then enjoy reading!!!!.

3 basics for healthy relations I

Life has evolved at this stag that, our life is getting busier.

 We don't have time for our loved one. You

 forget to give space to your loved one and that 

always bring relations problem. It's certain because 

our busy life schedule, we simply avoid communication or 

don't have time for it. I just want to tell here, we have to 

always give space for our loved one. Here i would talk 

about 3 basics of relationship. The most important thing

Relations advice

 is that these basic are interdependent on each other. 

First, i would talk about TIME: time is the most 

important factor for healthy relationship. 

Someone said it right, "the best gift, one can ever give to your loved one is time" give as much time as you can to your loved one, because it will allow you to show your actual feeling, how much your care? You understand? You affectionate? Time will simply give you moments to share your ecstasy with your loved one. Mine opinion is that, if you give an expensive gift, like ring, watches etc. 

It may get lost or broken with time. But, if you give some moments of your life, than those moments will always be engraved in heart and mind. So, its not that hard to give some time to our loved one. In-fact we can enjoy every moments together. 

So just a request promise within your self from today you will give as much time as you can with your loved one. The best example would be going out for a weekend with your loved one. I have followed it, and i am with my girlfriend since last 6 year. The next basics of relation i would continue in my next post. Enjoy reading.

How do i get her out of my heart and my mind?

"It already have been a week she left me, but still i can't get her out of my heart and my mind. These week came out to be the worst and catastrophic week ever in my life. My whole world as if is haunting and coming toward me. I have been in my bed since that day, don't feel hunger or sleep also. I have been lighting up a cigar and indulge in drinking a wine. I tried everything to get her out of my heart, but i don't know, why i can't! May be it because she meant the whole world for me. 
i don't think that anything ever can change my feeling for her" hmm  

broken heart

Most of the people after get broken up in relations does this and its not new. Many of mine friend experienced this situation. I simple used to say with time everything will be fine but truth is that no one can understand that feeling, unless you go through such condition. 
I am normal being, so i too have experienced this a year back and follow some simple thing, which everyone know but never implement it. I would write here what i did to get out of those hard throbbing condition. Yes, most of the time tears or sobbing comes to be best solution to get out of such situation. I cried a lot and it really helped me and second thing i did was i tried to put myself on busy schedule.
 I went to my job and indulged busily in work, in my free time i talked with my family. My mom, sister. Sorry to tell you my father passed away. During a weekends i spent my time with my college friends. I made my self very busy, although sometime in midst of my busy schedule my heart start to think about her, tear flows for some time. But again i start my busy schedule.
 So i got out of this situation this way. It may not work for everyone, but it will work with most of us! If u like it please do comment and even you have any other resolution please do share it so it can help some one.

How much i love you?

Once their lived a couples, they were very happy with each other. They used to share their happiness and were compassionate about each other, share their intimacy, love and care for each other. So they planned to get married, they got married.

So in this way: days turned in weeks, weeks to months and then months to years.  6 years of their marriage got passed. They still had a happy life, but things got changed a lot. And soon their started some relations clashes, because of wife thinking that his husband didn’t gave enough time for her. The husband usually did go to his job and cam back to home and try to give as much time he can to his wife. The reason being, very tired, the wife start gets a feeling that his husband is no more interested with her. He doesn’t give much time to her. She cannot share her joyful and good moments. She started having a feeling that she was now not happy with her husband. There grew a lot of misunderstanding.  She thought of seeking her husband for the divorce as she was not anymore happy with her husband. So one evening when her husband was back from the work, she talked that she was not happy with their married life. It wasn't working good and she want a divorce. Husband didn't say any thing he just went to light up a cigar and then came back asking her; that what is the problems?

Wife heat throbbed in pain and she started lamenting that, he doesn't give much time to her and all the fantasy she got is no more present in their life. So she wants a divorce.

Husband simply asked, “What I can do to make you feel that how much I love you?”

Wife replied, “Can you bring me the diamond that exists in our myths story?”

Husband thought on for a while, thinking some thing and left her.

Ok I will give you reply tomorrow. The wife with the tears in her went to her bed and slept.

The next morning wife didn't found her husband next to him, but saw a small envelope in table. When she opened the envelope and she started reading out and tear swept from eyes.

In that letter it was written,

“all the memories that we shared, all the moments we were together were the best moments of my life, and if its your wish that I get that myths diamond which doesn't even exists, I will bring that one for you, if I fail I would rather commit suicide and end up myself, but yes my love for you never change and I have always loved you”

Love the one And not what they have?

Once a boy loved a girl very much. He was very caring and affectionate
toward her.
The girl also liked and love him.
So, one day boy made a proposal of marriage to the girl.
The boy on girl reply was shocked! Girl  replied, " i love you, but i
can't marry you because won't be happy with you, you are not rich and
can't fulfill all the wishes of my life."
boy didn't say anything and left with a tear and heart being throbbed in pain.
Since that day boy was never seen. The girl to missed him. But didn't
care at all.
Time moved on!
Day turned to weeks, weeks to months, and months to years.
The girl got married with a rich person working as manager.
They live happy life. And in fact she was very happy, with her husband.
She also got one kid.
And they live their life happily.
One day the woman was with her kid at some shopping complex, when some
said, hello! In a known tone. When girl looked back, she saw her past
standing in front of her. The boy asked, how are you?
She replied, i am fine. And how about you? The moment her husband came
from back and said hey honey you know him. He is my boss, and he is
not married yet. He till the moment is not married, because he loved a
girl but girl didn't want to marry at that time he wasn't rich.
The girl didn't have any answer she was full of tear. And the boy left them.
This normally happens, because, we go after transitory things and not
after the feeling. So try to understand importance of our loved one.

in search of love

In search of love A boy and girl loved each other. They shared happiness, care and understanding. The boy always wanted girl to have a happy life but he was not rich enough. According to their place myths their was a mountain, where if one make wish and jump from that mountain his wishes get fulfiled. So, one morning he left the girl. With a note on bed side. "from today on ward you will be most happy person in the world" girl thought his boy friend left him and start crying. Day passed and passed, and things changed a lot.
 But the boy never returned. So, girl returned to her normal life but always thought of his were in her mind. After a couple of year, girl get married someone who was rich and that person love her very much and she start forgeting everything. 
And she was realy happy again. They also got kid. She already forgot her past. Then suddenly one day her past boyfriend appeared before her and lamented her the entire story, how he jumped off that mountain making, a wish, he didnt die. Some people found him drown in river. And he told that he was in comma since past 7 year. On that moment a boy appeared before them with a baby in his hand asking, hey honey lets go home. Boy was in catastrophe but he didnt say anything. He smiled watcing his tatto engraved with her name in it, and said " i wrote her name in my hand because she wasn't written in my destiny" and left. What i want to say hear, is it doesn't matter, who your? The things that matter is love. Their is no secret of happiness, because where their is love, always their exists happiness

you were a missing part of my Heart!!!

A Short story to make you all understand: how frustration can bring an huge catastrophe condition to a relationship,
so please friend avoid it!!!
Boy proposed his girlfriend, love of his life for marriage

Girl : Tell me... who do you love most in this world..?
Boy :  of course  you honey!
Girl : Hmmm! what am I to you?
Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said
"you are the missing part of my 
Heart"
She smiled, and she accepted his proposal. 
After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while. However,the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy schedule of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems...their life became difficult.

All the challenges posed by the harsh realities of life began to drift away their dreams and love for each other...The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became make their relation more worst.
One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house.... At the opposite side of the road, she shouted, “You don't love me...!"
The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse, said, “May be, it was a mistake for us to be together..! You were never the missing part of my  !"
Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while.... He regretted what he said but words spoken can’t be taken back.
With tears in her eyes, she went home to pack her things and Before leaving the house, she left a note for him:
"If I'm really not the missing part of you , let me go..n search for someone who is...It is less painful this way... let us go on our separate ways and search for our own partners..."

Five years went by....
He never remarried but he had tried to find out about her life indirectly..... . She had left the country and was living her dreams.
He use to regret on what he did but never tried to bring her back.. In the dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the lingering ache in his heart. He couldn't bring himself to admit that he was missing her.....
One day, they finally met.... At the airport, He was going away on a business trip .He saw her, She was standing there alone, with just the security door separating them. She smiled at him gently.
Boy: How are you? 
Girl: I'm fine. How about you... Have you found your heart's missing part...?
Boy: No.

you were the missing part of my heart!

Girl: I'll be flying to New York in the next flight.
Boy: I'll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back...You knows my number.... Nothing has changed.
With a smile, she turned around and waved good-bye..
"Good-bye . . ."
Same evening he heard of a plane crash which was headed to New York. He tried to know about her and found that, She died.
Midnight..... Once again, he lit his cigarette..... And like before, he felt the lingering ache in his heart.... He finally knew, she was that missing part that he had carelessly broken . . .
Sometimes, people say things out of moments of fury..... We take out our 99% frustrations at our loved ones.... And even though we know that we ought to "think twice and act wisely", we actually don’t do it. Things happen each day, many of which are beyond our control.
Try not to hurt your loved once, because a moment of anger cud b a life time punishment..

Changes...

Life changes and goes on and simply we can't do much except 
accepting the way it want us to go through. we are born than 
eventually with time we grow up, reach a younger age and
 later on adolescence and then grow up older and die. in every 
sphere and stag of life we start getting change.
Here i will not write about the physical changes.
But i would rather write about how with a passage
 time the relations get changed:
every relationship begins with a lots and lots of promises, and
 its not wrong because according to human nature, "the thing
 which we don't acquire, is always more attached with us 
and we try very hard to make it our's "

CHANGES

and people says as we already acquire something, it value 
get lessen, but the true fact is especially in
 relationship: expectation goes on increasing with a parlance of time.
i can give you a good example over here:
 initially in any relationship one become fond of opposite person. 
it just because of law of attraction between two opposite person's.
 and with time things goes on changing and that mere attraction changes 
to some deep feeling and attachments and it starts a cumbersome feeling's
 of trust, fear of losing loved one.
it happens in 99% of the cases. because insecurity is in the human nature.