Attitude and ego - worst enemy in relationships

What is bad? An attitude or ego, well if one ever encounter

 this question. No doubt, one cannot go with any one of them.

 For a moment even i thought, i should have provided an option

 of both of them are bad. They can be even considered 

worst enemy of human kind.

attitude and ego are the worst enemy in any relationships as well, 

it doesn't matter what sort of relationship one is dealing off.

I have once been through a incident, where the thing was a small 

matter, but ego and attitude put the full fire on mine friend and his

 girlfriend relationship's, which in the ended up with broken 

relationship. They loved each other, did care for each other

 and were even fond of each other. But one sudden day, they

 fought like a small child and their attitude put their relationship

 to the end. And if i tell you the reason why they fight, 

you all cannot control your laughter.

So better people you guess the reason of laughter,

 i will write about it some day in other posts.

well that's the only example, but yes, if you want relationship to

 be for long term and be happy till the end. Keep the attitude 

and your ego in your pocket. Because if you really love someone, 

nothing whether it be ego, attitude, race, caste nothing should matter.

So think twice dear people before  bringing the attitude or ego in the relationship.

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Their is a real  feel of being the hero of someone

 who is special to our heart and soul.

it doesn't matter whether we are dead or alive,

 love always do remain still the same through out our lives.

this songs show the actual meaning of love,

 and how much a love can change a 

person and up-to what extent?

so reader how many of you all do you think

 can do this for your loved one.

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Safe place for first dating

Well, whenever we think of the first date, into bring a kind of shyness

 or a broad smile on our face. Even someone might be feeling 

awkward situation in first date. It's normal and their is

 nothing to panic about. I have been through that on 

which you are right now.

When we do anything for first time, it's not needed we need

 to be perfect, even average or below average will work absolutely fine. 

OK let us begin here with a dating advice, but before that

 i would like to ask, where you are hooking up? What are the area of your interest?

 You want go for short term or long term relations!

Their are lot of more question that one should keep in the mind while

 going for the first date. But as matter of fact, mere excitement and 

esctacy led to downtrodden first date.

It happen most of time with us. But one should always remain calm and

 composed in the first date i.e wearing your favorite colour outfit and

 behave with your date who you are and never try to act over smart.

 Be genuine and loyal. But let us talk about the place where one

 should usually go on the first date or first relationships date. 

The place like coffee house, cinema hall, park etc would be the

 great place. Indeed one can visit a shopping complex and 

get to know each other like and dislikes.

It helps really in making a healthy relationship and bond as an couple.

For the first date, if you have a same interest than the best place

 would be some park to visit where only you and your date 

would be their, where in you can express your self very easily.

 No need to be shy, go ahead and deal with your first  date as 

your examination ,  "do the best and leave the rest"

Well at last the place for your first date should be your area 

of your interest . i gave an example of park, because i do love 

the silence place to go on a date with.do leave your feedback 

or comment so that i can correct my mistakes if any, i wrote!

relationships True Love story

This is one of the most awesome video ever 

based on love, it really 

do happen and that's a truth

so dear viewer, do you all think in real life, 

one can sacrifice there love 

to make there family happy.in relationstalk this is best ever favorite post of mine

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True Romance!

Well it seem's to be so true and courteously, 

this is the best talk on a

a romance ever i had been through. True romance 

do make two person

 so happy with in them self as if they do not need

 anyone else in the world.

Have been Hurt soo much in relationship!

I was hurt too much in relationship, even she left me

 and it been a year but i feel like as if it happened yesterday.

 I tried to get her out of my heart and my mind,

 but why the hell is sticking to my memories.

 A friend advised me a lot forget the past and move on. 

I would rather say that to give advice is rather easy than 

to follow someone's advice. I did tried a lot of example like

 drinking, smoking try to hang up with someone. But nothing 

worked for me,  so it was a hard time i went through.

Hmm have you all anyone went though this ever,

 if yes than for sure you all you know how i felt.

That's a things apart, it happened to me and

 i would never want anyone ever to go through this situation.

But now let us come to the main part viewer,

 that how i got rid of this condition after a hard

 relationships conditions.

The best thing one shall do, if you ever happened 

to go through such conditions would be to talk with your friends

 who really is your friend with benefit. 

To whom you can share what ever you like, what you feel?

 and how you feel? 

And it really did help me so much to get rid of shitty

 condition and now i am back again to life as if nothing

 ever happened to me. But it is also true in midst

 of something, she comes in my memories.

3 basis of Healthy Relationship III

In my previous two post "3 basis of relationship", we wrote about the two 

base for maintaining a relationship i.e TIME & UNDERSTANDING.

 Now i will move ahead with my last and final post which is the last

 basis for the healthy relationship i.e communication. 

Communication like wise the two important factor for healthy relationship,

 it too is very important function for healthy relationship.

In fact one can say that for healthy relationship one need to have a 

good amount communication. The reason is simply because if you communicate more 

you will get to know each other and your area of interest and that will led 

your feeling towards each other fondness or

Relationship advice

dis-likeness, and if one really want a healthy relationship then this factor is also 

of prime importance, and in-spite of making a pancake in your thought or head, it would

 be better to communicate and share the feeling that you feel for each other.

sometime even after going through a years of  marriage, in most cases, the divorce

occurs because of lack of communication with each other.

Sharing not how you feel, about him/her will only led to destruction

 of relations and it ends from being everything to nothing. i know that's true, 

but who cares to accept this fact.

"communication", well let me tell you is possible only by spending as much time

 as you can together, which will ultimately lead you to proper understanding in the relationship,

 and it will strengthen their relationship.

well respectful reader this are the 3 basis of relationship advice and i am giving

 you the conclusion that following this 3 basis is indefinably 

gonna help for best relationship ever. irrespective, one also need to give 

their effortless effort to hold and stick on relationship

its crush or love

Well said, "if you like someone for some reason whether it be 

look, personality it is fondness or likeness, but when we start 

liking someone without any reason or grudges, its love"

Now most of the reader must be guessing in there mind what a bulshit!

 The reason being most of us think relationship start with

 knowing each other thy, rather then blindfolding your

 eyes. And that's right also, but after reaching certain

 stag in a relationship one may start having fear in their 

mind, than a feeling for each other. And if this happen in 

your relationship it means it was a crush and intended up with break up at last.

Holy Christ! then what about love?

Crush or Love

Well indefinably love correlates to only a strong feeling 

and attachment for each other with span of time,since 

there lies no personal interest or grudges for someone. 

This can happen with anyone ages like wise doesn't 

matter whether it be a crush or a love.

And its really hard to differentiate between crush and love.

 Whether relationship is based on crush or love can be

 known only when the time goes on flowing motion. 

Sometime one may be too late to realize that it was

 a fondness, and no strong feeling to bond 2 heart. So

 do not take much time while understanding the gap

 between crush and love.

Soon i am gonna write one post on how understand the
 gap in crush and love. Till than my folk out there check out my other post as well.

Attraction and expectation

Life is full of attraction and expectation, and it’s

 true. As a kid, we may always have attraction with 

some kind of fluffy and small toys. As we grow our

 attraction to grows up with different

 things, as a matter of fact they grow stronger with time.

Some one said it right,” human beings are

 like a bucket with a whole in its bottom!”

it  demand never get's fulfilled, as one demand or needs of our's

 get fulfilled , the other needs comes into existence and so on.

Attraction & Expectation

and our life's goes on, and we cant do 

nothing much about that!

except hoping for more and more out of it.

if we talk about an relationship, same theory applies here too,

 and most amazing things is love, attraction or a relationship begins 

with attraction and ends up with Expectation.

initially when we go in relationship we do have the fondness

for each other and every thing thing seems to be a creamy pie.

isn't what i said correct!! dear reader.

Hmm that's 99% true fact and it must have happened to most 

of us or with most of us. and after getting  to know each other, 

starts the reality of likeness and dis-likeness, or fondness for each other.

a lot of things starts to get changed with time. and we try to

 make changes in

 each other and ultimately it leaves the relationship 

with lot of expectation

 for each other, and ends up with the break up for so called thy love,

 which people thinks. But

as a matter of fact it was a pure form of infatuation or attraction.

and those who still caress and got a real feeling with each other strengthen their feeling 

with each other as every single day of there lives goes on.

waiting for your feedback reader!! hope you love it all and mind my mistake

 if did i hurt someone feeling

True Feeling!!

To have feeling for some one is great, but some time it may turn

 out to be in a tragic end. What i would suggest people or most

 of person suggest is , "share your feeling or your thought about 

that particular person with them". In spite of cooking some delicious food

 in your mind and having an awesome dream, so that you
do  know there opinion about

 your feeling too. And it would be for the betterment of both the person.

 You might save yourself from been in a worse condition 

ever in your life. this happens many time in every person life's.
i did experience this once when i had attraction with one of teacher 
while i was completing my graduation. i felt like i was in love with her,
 but it was not love, it was growth of hormone in my body. i realized it early 
so i didn't go through much trouble and problems. but in most of the cases

Feelings!!

 this doesn't happens! we know that it is a mere attraction when it is to late for us to 
make or go through the changes. for instance my friend even curt his hand's 
nerve for the girl with whom he was so attracted. the girl under pressure did accept 
the proposal of my friend but after sometime may be around 7 months of 
relationship they got break up. where as he use to say, "i cannot live with 
out her and would like to spend the whole life with her and get married".
so sometime i even feel whether the true feeling do exists or not
 To my reader out there i am not a great 

writer but what i have felt and what i have experienced is 

being shared by me. I will be very soon writing a story about: how not

 sharing of one feeling made that guy to be alone through out his life.

do give the post your valuable comment!!