to be jealous is part of LOVE

A short story pleading people not to get jealous over their loved one's. A couple having a conversation in a park of their college. Boy : do you realy love me han! Girl : hmm yes i do Boy: ok thank you and kissed her on her lips. Girl: i love you, please never ever leave me boy : i love you too, and can't leave without you. Girl : but you know i realy get jealous when the other girl stares at you or talk to you! Boy : hey Honey please don't get jealous because you have one thing of mine that they dont have and will never have! Girl : whats that please tell my love?? Boy : boy holding her hand and putting his chest "MINE HEART" its my small token for all those couple who are jealous. Please don't get jealous friend's. It bring nothing except relationship problem

How much she loved me?

One of my pasts girlfriend said to me "i do care for your happiness, but i dont care even if im hurts. i can suffered for you, you have made a rightchoice for yourself, i am nothing, your not brocken heart instead your most happiest person now, yuo have got a freedom and no one will destroy ur relation, neither me from my heart i want you to be happy, how it hurts i can't even explain, but if it comes to your happiness i can do everything or anything for you, maybe im not the right women for you, just to say do take care of yourself and your girlfriend, love her and take care of her. She is the one right for you, enjoy your life with her, wish you all the best, bye raj fore ever." i just want to say you, "Although i don't have any communication with you, i just want to wish you for all the happiness, in your life. May be i was not that much good for you so i just want you all happiness by grace of lord. You find someone realy good in relationship." all the best for you in your life.

How attitude and misunderstanding causes relationship problems?

I still remember that day, when i was hurted to much! What was mine fault? I didn't except much in my life except her. Why she didnt understand me? Or may be it was our fate to do the assaults. We always have option in our life, but things don't go in the exact way we want it to go. That day was 7th february being a rose day and its been a month i quit a job. So i don't have much choice and was going through financial strain. My pocket was empty and i didnt even have a penny for a cigar. When i emptied my wallet i found 100 bucks. That day being a special day i thought of getting a flower for my girl friend. And got a good collection of flower for her. But after i bought flower i didn't even have a fair to go to my girl friend house. I called her number, she was bit busy with her work. I told i was outside her house. But, she being very busy didnt came. I cried and told her ok than i am going back home. I had walked 10 km on my foot to give her small token of my love. I was getting back, suddenly my phone ranged, it was her! In a angry voice she said whats up? The reason being she could complete her work for some reason. I replied, "i had got something for you, but i realised that it wasnt meant to be for you" and it was true also on my way back, i gave it to small kid, a stray on a traffic. May be i was hurt very much because of her behaviour and my condition. She call me again and start to frustrate, i was simply listening her, as if without any feeling. She asked me to meet up, but i replied, "sorry i will meet you when i will grow that much, till i can be responsible". From that day i stopped talking with her. It happens normaly that we give up on our loved one because of our attitude and misunderstanding. So, i will advice to try in giving off ones attitude, for good relationship.

3 basics for healthy relationship II

In my last post "3 basics for healthy relationship I" i wrote about the first factor being the time. So what i am gonna do is to write about second basics of relationship, which is "understanding" one can also refer it as mutual understanding. Understanding is also a crucial and important factor for any kind of relationship. Its said correct, misunderstanding can bring a catastrophe to relationship. Its enough now! So let us proceed how to built, understanding. 

relationship advice

Again here comes the first basic time. 

One should spent more and more time with their loved one. And the other most important thing is show them "who you are?" and stop pretending. It will really help to built good understanding. It will actually show person your nature.
 Its better to quit a relationship in the beginning  if their is a lot of misunderstanding. 

Don't force some one for a relation. It will bring nothing except, hurting yourself. Mine word may be easy to say, rather than in actual practice  But, you have to do that for betterment of your relation. Some time eyes speaks, emotion talks, the moment you understand all this, it mean you have a good understanding with your loved one. So you can try to implement it in your life. The last basic i would write in my next post. 
Till then enjoy reading!!!!.